When Unloved By Soul Mate

She’s been made to believe that if she tries harder, or sticks in there longer, or loses more weight, or changes her behavior in some way, this man will begin to love her, or love her more, or love her once again. Many women who would rather be with a man who doesn’t love them — or who treats them badly, or who just tolerates them — than to be alone.

When women find their worth in God’s eyes, they will understand that they are loved with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3), and that they are unforgettable to God (Isaiah 49:15), and that they are truly sought after (Isaiah 62:12). Jesus — God in the flesh — laid down His life for her on a Roman cross so that she would not have to die in her sins. It was the only thing that could be done so He could spend eternity with her. Knowing we have been rescued with that kind of unconditional, redeeming love, how could any man on this earth compete for our hearts?

So, my friend… No, it isn’t worth it to love and long for a man who really isn’t sure how he feels about you. If he loves someone else, but you are the one who is available and she is not, you need to make yourself unavailable to him…and available to whomever God might bring into your life once you raise your standards and say “I want my Heavenly Father’s very best…and I will hold out for nothing less.” Keep your eyes open for a man who will love you as God already loves you and suddenly the bar will be much higher — and your chances of being hurt or betrayed will be much lower.

Written By Cindi McMenamin

New Identity In Christ

But you, beloved, remember the words which were spoken before by the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ: how they told you that there would be mockers in the last time who would walk according to their own ungodly lusts. These are sensual persons, who cause divisions, not having the Spirit. But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit, keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life. (Jude 1:17-21)

Before we were saved, we were ungodly, denying God, following the ways of the world, caused divisions among people, gratifying our fleshly desires, despise authorities and had no desire for spiritual life. The moment we received Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior trusting His crucifixion, His death, His burial, His resurrection and His ascension to the heavenly place our old identity has been changed into new identity. Now, we are chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, special people who are made righteous and holy in Christ by simple faith. We come boldly before the throne of God through Jesus knowing our prayer will bring forth results. As we remain closer to God by praying and reading the word of God enabling us to bear fruits of righteousness and holiness in our day to day life.

In The Name Of Jesus

And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (Philippians 2:8-11)

Jesus who is God came down to earth in the form of man was born of virgin Mary conceived by the Holy Spirit. Christ came to fulfill the mission of God, the Father. Jesus came to redeem the entire mankind fallen in sin through the blood He shed on the cross of Calvary. His obedience till the point of death, obtained a Him name above all other names. When we receive Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we reinstated back into fellowship with God having boldness to approach the throne of grace anytime. There is tremendous power released when we call upon the name of the Jesus in faith as He protects us from every evil. We cast out demons in the name of Jesus because His name is above the name of any sickness or situation. We pray and receive the blessings prepared for us before the foundation of the world in the name of Jesus.

God Is For Us

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? (Romans 8.31)

Sometimes, people come against us for varied reasons and we start to doubt whether we can stand strong in faith knowing God will deliver us. There is a beautiful verse which states that whoever touches us, touches the apple of His eye. This means God protect and keeps us away from the plots or deliver us from the plot. People may surround us from all sides but God is wall of fire around us. We know we are in Christ and we are to lift our praise believing if God is for us then no one can stand against us. Let us confess today that no weapon formed against me shall prosper.

Living In The Calm Delight Of God!

Truly my soul silently waits for God; From Him comes my salvation. (Psalm 62:1)

In our hopeless circumstances, we make a choice whether to praise God or complain. When we choose to praise God for His goodness, we begin to experience a calm delight. This delight covers us from the attacks of the enemy who brings doubts and fears.Whenever we find ourselves weak, we are to strengthen ourselves in prayer. Through prayer, we receive the strength to trust in the promises and find this calm delight in God once again. I pray that the calm delight of God fill all our days.

Will Of God For Me Is To Prosper In Every Area

Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. (3 John 1:2)

John the apostle writes to his spiritual son Gauis, the will of God for him is to be physically strong as he is getting spiritually strong. Jesus who came in flesh took upon Himself our sins and punishment for those sins. The wounds in the body of Jesus brought us healing in every aspect of our life - physically, emotionally, spiritually and socially. When we fill our hearts with this truth, we begin to believe and confess till we see the manifestation of truth in our lives. Even circumstances are against us and people may come against us through false teachings, we are to continually hold to truth persistently thereby receive reward from God.

Our Faith In Jesus Helps Us Overcome The World

For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith. Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God? (1 John 5:4-5)

True Christianity is to know Jesus as true God who came in flesh to die for our sins, bearing the punishment for our sins and carrying all our griefs. We are born of God when we trust in His divine sacrifice. This enables us to receive blessing, healing, joy, peace and righteousness freely. Christ in us working through us, we are able to practice righteous works. Our faith in Jesus helps us overcome the world victoriously whether it be sickness, sin or sorrow as we follow God wholeheartedly not following the expectations of the world.

Following God

For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world - our faith. Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God? (1 John 5:4-5)

True Christianity is to know Jesus as true God who came in flesh to die for our sins, bearing the punishment for our sins and carrying all our griefs. We are born of God when we trust in His divine sacrifice. This enables us to receive blessing, healing, joy, peace and righteousness freely. Christ in us working through us, we are able to practice righteous works. Our faith in Jesus helps us overcome the world victoriously whether it be sickness, sin or sorrow as we follow God wholeheartedly not following the expectations of the world.

Our Sorrow Turned Into Joy

Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6)

We live in world where we have lot of worries and concerns. We as believers of Jesus are to cast our care upon our God in all circumstances. We have God who can handle all issues of life in His ordained time. Even though we may not see results of our prayer and trust immediately but one fine day all the goodness of God will be revealed in our life. During the time where we don’t see our sorrow turned to joy, we can live in faith that Jesus took upon the cross all my sorrows to give us life worth living. I pray that God will shower grace upon all our life.